Monday, May 30, 2011

Being jilted by someone that you love and care about is never a fun experience to have to go through. If you have broken up with your boyfriend and you are starting to get that feeling that you want to be back together with him, then you may want to keep reading. While it might seem like it is just one of those wishes that will never come true to get back with your ex boyfriend, it does not have to be that way.

Getting back together with an ex boyfriend is actually a lot simpler than you would think, as long as you know what it is that will motivate him to want to get back together with you. And when it comes to motivating a guy to want to get back together, it does not always end up being that hard. Men and women are wired differently when it comes to relationships and dating, so if you are going to pursue him with the same methods that would work on yourself, then you are not going to get him back.

What can you do if you still love your ex boyfriend and you want to get back together with him?

As hard as it might be to confront your true feelings, you definitely want to do this before you go after him. Once you do get him back, you don't want to realize that it was a mistake. So, before you do anything to try and win him back, take the time to think about whether or not this is really what you want to happen. If it is, good. Knowing what you really want in this situation is really important.

The next step is to try and figure out whether or not he is open to the idea of getting back together.

This can be really simple to do. Call him up or send him a text message and see how he responds to you. You don't want to come out and say that you are calling him or texting him to try and see if he wants to get back with you, just send him a little pleasant message to measure his response. Or, call him up as if you just wanted to chat for a few minutes. If he seems to be eager to talk to you, this is a good sign.

From there, you want to be slow about actually getting back into a relationship again. Spend some time with him just on a friendly not to see what you are feeling. You don't have to rush things just because you feel as though you are still in love with your ex boyfriend.

About the Author: Alexandra
If you are struggling with trying to find out how to get your boyfriend back, then you need to really know what works and what does not.


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