Monday, May 30, 2011

Do you find yourself reminiscing on past memories of you and your ex boyfriend and you are finding it harder to get him off of your mind? Trying to get over a relationship that ends can be very difficult, some even equate it to dealing with the death of a loved one. So, you can see that it would be understandable that he remains in your thoughts and that it would make you feel sad at times when you think about him. However, when the feeling is stronger than that and you find that you are really considering whether or not you can win him back, that can be even more difficult.

Do you ever find yourself picking up the phone, wanting to call him, and then you put it down because you assume that you would be just a bother to him?

I don't think that there is a woman alive that has not done this to herself at least once or twice, especially when you find yourself sitting alone on a warm and comfy couch and you just wish that you had him sitting there, next to you.

Why don't you finish dialing his number and see if he picks up the phone?

Probably because inside of your mind you are telling yourself all kinds of negative things like he might get annoyed with you, he might be out with another woman, etc. The truth may very well be that he is sitting at home just like you, with the phone in hand, thinking about calling you.

Point is, you never really know unless you try. If you find yourself really missing your ex boyfriend and you want to get him back, pay attention to that feeling that you are getting.

Even though you may not be able to see it right now, there really is a good chance that you can win back your boyfriend and get rid of that aching feeling. No more thinking about what he might be up to, or whether or not you really should call him up.

How do you win him back?

The concept is rather simple, the execution is not always as easy. The concept is to find a way to build up his desire for you, so that it is not some situation where you desperately want him back and he does not feel the same way. You want him to feel the same way about you, really, you NEED him to feel that way about you.

About the Author: Alexandra
If you are struggling with trying to win your ex boyfriend back, then you need to really know what works and what does not.


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